Griatch wrote:
... I find that much perceived crudeness is often from confusion by people from different cultural backgrounds and from people whose native language is not English.
This is an excellent observation. Not only does confusion arise from language or cultural differences, it's that you can miss out on the flavor and tone of a response when you're simply reading a post on a forum. For example, it might be hard to determine if someone is using sarcasm in a humorous fashion or if they actually mean what they're writing. I think you can only pick up on some of these kinds of subtleties if you're in the same room with someone, hearing them speak and seeing their body language.
Griatch wrote:
I tend to always assume the kinder interpretation of an ambivalent statement...
I think this is an excellent approach and probably one we should all try to follow.
Griatch wrote:
Especially in this forum I get the feeling the fear of hurting someone's feelings is sometimes so great that some people avoid giving any sort of honest feedback no matter the image they are commenting on.
I believe some of this can be attributed to cultural differences mentioned previously. Many of us have been taught that if we don't have something nice to say, we shouldn't say anything. It can be difficult to break out of that mindset, even in a forum where negative critique is acceptable, and even solicited.
Occasionally, I might comment on a piece of art I like, without explaining why. If I don't particularly care for a piece of art, I'm probably not going to saying anything, because it's just my opinion and what I like might not be what others like. Personally, I can't really offer constructive critique on hand drawing or painting because I lack experience in that area. Occasionally, I offer suggestions on how I think a render might be improved.
On the other hand, I would expect members who post hand drawn works in the art section, would want those with hand drawing and painting experience, like yourself, to offer critique. Some members even solicit that kind of critique.
I do think it's very normal for there to be more posts like "Very nice!" or "That's cool!" than posts with detailed constructive critique, for the reasons previously mentioned and due to the fact that it can be a time consuming process, where one must be arduously tactful with their criticisms.